Tara, Rick and Brandon are eager to adopt a baby boy or girl! Hello! We are Tara, Rick, and Brandon. We realize you must be going through a very difficult time in your life as you consider an adoption plan for your child. We want to thank you for taking the time to read about our family as you decide what is best for you and your baby. Click here to read more about Tara, Rick and Brandon and to see lots of great pictures of them! "Somehow destiny comes into play. These children end up with you and you end up with them. It's something quite magical." — Nicole Kidman

Home Study

The home study is "your life story". You will probably have several interviews with your social worker, both in your home and possibly in his/her office. The social worker will not be coming into your home to do a "white glove" inspection. Don't exhaust yourself cleaning and polishing! If your home is "too perfect", it may be perceived that you will have trouble adjusting to the clutter that always comes with children. The social worker will be checking to make sure the child you will adopt will be entering a safe, healthy home. If he/she notices something of concern, you will be advised and given plenty of time to make the necessary changes or adjustments.

Tips when preparing for your Home Study:

• Be happy and excited, but try to relax. Most importantly, be honest!
  
• Get organized, complete all necessary paperwork and be prepared for your home study.
  
• Select a social worker recommended by Friends In Adoption.
  
• Get your home ready for a visitor, but don't exhaust yourself cleaning and polishing.
  
• Offer the social worker a soft drink or cup of coffee when he/she arrives in your home. Family photos are a great way for the worker to "get to know" your family (don't bore him/her with volumes of albums, but some framed photos will be great.)
  
• Don't panic ... it is okay to be nervous, this is important, but try be relaxed and natural. It will be easier for the worker to know you if you just "be yourselves".
  
• Don't mislead the worker about any part of your life. (Financial problems, childhood problems, counseling or psychological history, a bad job experience or skeletons in your closet.) Your worker will discuss these things with you and chances are, it won't present a problem if you show how you are currently dealing with the situation.
  
• If you have other children in your home, let them know a social worker is coming for a visit and why. Don't panic if your child takes this opportunity to "really act up", children do these kinds of things. Your worker has probably seen it before. However, it may be that your child just needs more discussion/information about what you are planning to do and about the up and coming change in your family.
  
• Rely on your sense of humor, you will need this throughout the adoption process.
  
• A smile, a firm handshake, a joke, a generally warm and friendly demeanor among yourselves and with the worker, will go a long way.
  
• Remember the road to adoption may sometimes be bumpy, but well worth your efforts. Be patient! The process may seem lengthy, but the rewards are great!

Begin now preparing yourselves for your home study. This is a time to learn more about each other and to begin preparing for new roles as parents. All aspects of the adoption process should be discussed jointly. Each person should have their questions answered and feel completely comfortable with the answers. This journey will last a lifetime.... and will bring life's greatest rewards. Children restore our awareness of the world around us and renew our wonder and amazement.

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