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Q: How do I give up my baby for adoption?” A: When an expectant mother is considering adoption for her baby, it is much more than just “giving a baby up for adoption”. It means making an adoption plan for her child, and it means a lot of courage and incredible sacrifice on her part. She knows she is… Read More
Q: What is FIA’s approach to adoption? A: FIA believes and practices compassionate adoption, meeting the unique needs of EVERYONE involved in the process. FIA views adoption as a TEAM effort with all parties working towards the common goal of doing what is best for the child… Read More
Q: I don’t know anything about open adoption. Can you tell me about it? A: Open adoption enables communication between expectant/birth parents and adoptive birth parents before and/or after placement of a child with the adoptive family. Open adoption may include sharing information, letters, emails, calls, texts, and or face-to face visits…… Read More
Q: What’s the difference between Open Adoption and Closed Adoption? A: Open Adoption vs Closed Adoption means, among many other factors, that there are different levels of post-adoption contact. In open adoption, there is an ongoing direct relationship between the child and the birth family…… Read More
Q: Is FIA a licensed and not-for-profit adoption agency? A: Yes, FIA is a not-for-profit adoption agency licensed in Vermont and Rhode Island; a New York State authorized agency and approved in Connecticut… Read More
Q: How old are the children who are placed for adoption? A: FIA is licensed to place children of any age. The majority of placements involve newborns… Read More
Q: What states to the children who are places come from? A: FIA is licensed for domestic adoption. FIA works with expectant mothers/ couples from all over the United States.… Read More
Q: What is open adoption and are all adoptions with FIA open? A: Open adoption generally means there is an ongoing direct relationship between the child and the birth family. FIA adheres to “Hospitious Adoption”. Jim Gritter, author of Hospitious Adoption takes the approach that practicing goodwill, respect, and courage within the realm of adoption makes the process unfold more smoothly and enriches children’s lives… Read More
Q: Are all adoptions that Friends in Adoption (FIA) handles open adoption? A: No, the type of post-adoption contact varies depending on the birth parents and adoptive parents that are involved. For example, if you call our toll-free number and… Read More
Q: I am afraid of being judged . . . if I call your agency, what can I expect? A: At FIA, we pledge to not judge you! No matter your circumstance, we are here to listen and not judge. We know it’s hard to talk about personal issues with a stranger, but sometimes it is easier than to talk with people who are trying to influence you to do a certain thing. …… Read More
Q: What services do you provide, and how much does it cost? A: All of FIA services are completely free for any person or couple who is considering making an adoption plan for their unborn child and/or already born children. These free services include . . .… Read More
Q: If I decide to place my child for adoption, do I have my own attorney or would the agency’s attorney advise me? A: You would have your own attorney who is a qualified adoption attorney, and that attorney would be free for you…… Read More
Q: What if I am still not sure of my decision but want to talk with someone? A: It’s completely okay if you are not sure of your decision. If you would like to talk with someone on the phone, via video chat, or even in person, there is no pressure…… Read More
Q: If I eventually decide on adoption, what would be the next step? A: When (and if) you are ready to move forward in making an adoption plan, FIA will connect you with an experienced staff member who will walk you through the details of making an adoption plan that feels right for you and your child…… Read More
Q: I think I would like a closed adoption. Can FIA help me? A: Yes! Friends in Adoption (FIA) strongly respects the birth parents’ wishes regarding whether or not there will be post-adoption contact with the adoptive family. FIA takes a person’s right to privacy very seriously and takes measures to assure all adoptions are done in a respectful and compassionate manner… Read More
